The Little Things

<br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEisA71aLCqFAo_6eFBCgbqXtux_FO9mNHEmFS-NmIWOJoeal6LyY35x8ZqRI6VBi8iP3A-Ohyphenhyphen8a7vNbACOTRNsvSYqlS-VLGlLjhH0LBe1EK2s-tPHMJTy11BVMdjfjW8DYAIx4dGx1j0SO/s1600/life+.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEisA71aLCqFAo_6eFBCgbqXtux_FO9mNHEmFS-NmIWOJoeal6LyY35x8ZqRI6VBi8iP3A-Ohyphenhyphen8a7vNbACOTRNsvSYqlS-VLGlLjhH0LBe1EK2s-tPHMJTy11BVMdjfjW8DYAIx4dGx1j0SO/s1600/life+.jpg" /></a></div><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Sometimes the best things in life may be the simplest but the feeling of joy they create are unmatched. These are Life's Little Pleasures, which we often overlook. Instead of focusing our energy on achieving something bigger and better, let's take the time to appreciate the little things that make us smile everyday.</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br /><br /><br /><h3><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #c27ba0; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;">There's Nothing Quite Like....</span></h3><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Sleep-in Sundays</span><br /><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*That first sumptuous sip of coffee in the morning</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*The smell of freshly baked bread</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Ice Cream on a scorching hot day</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*And hot chocolate (with mini marshmallows) in front of a fireplace on a cold one</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Sitting on a swing with the wind in your hair</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Finishing a good book</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Candy Floss</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*The feeling you get after doing a good, charitable deed</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Finding that perfect shade of lipstick</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Giving someone a gift you knew they really wanted</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Feel-good movies</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Being appreciated</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Finding a parking space closest to the entrance...on your first try</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Receiving a bunch of flowers when you least expect it</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Vanilla scented candles</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*A hug when you really need one</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Trying something new and discovering that you really like it</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Family weekends and home cooked meals</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Girl's nights out</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Ordering your cappuccino with cream, not foam...just this one time</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Spending time with your pets, or if you have a cat - serving him or her ;)</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*The adorable and very funny things that kids, nieces, nephews or little cousins say</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*The Pantene perfect way your hair looks after having a great salon cut and style</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Cracking the top off a creme brûlée (a la <i>Amelie</i>)</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Trying on a pair of jeans in the change room...and realizing you need a <i>smaller</i> size.</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Rainbows after rainstorms</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*The feeling of relief when you've learnt you've passed an exam</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*The anticipation of watching the first episode of the new season of your favourite tv series. On my list is Gossip Girl, The Vampire Diaries, Revenge and Once Upon a Time.</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Receiving a thoughtful letter in the post (and not an email) from a long lost friend</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*The scent of an uplifting fragrance - mine would be <i>Davidoff</i> Cool Waters</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Staying up to watch a sunrise </span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*The romance of a beautiful sunset over the ocean</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Finding something you thought you had lost</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Hearing your favorite song on the radio while you're stuck in traffic</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Going to pay for something at the counter and discovering it's on sale</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Reading an inspiring blog post </span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Eating something sinfully delicious...without the calorie-ridden guilt</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Trying on a Cinderella worthy pair of heels...and it perfectly fits</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Receiving a great compliment and graciously accepting it</span></div><br /><div><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /></span><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666; font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b><i>What are some of your life's little pleasures, I would love to hear it.</i></b></span><br /><br /><br /></div><br />

The Little Things

Sometimes the best things in life may be the simplest but the feeling of joy they create are unmatched. These are Life's Little Pleasure...

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My Official Resignation

<div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Today, I, Sam (of sound mind and judgement) would like to</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Officially Hand in my Resignation as An Adult.</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I have decided to accept the responsibilities of an eight-year-old again!</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> </span></div><div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3VDd-ajB1UKpAqYS54omXP053DCpxxp9BBQANackbHri7yUteEZFleJPo9QXnfM69B3Jhw2ohA9lfiFP2mlx3c4e0gqvW9kCeo2MyCyGpKS8tq6NBXQ4Lf7CHXY-WvF5jQ4qlDeXjYHPf/s1600/pastels+sam.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; display: inline !important; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="462" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3VDd-ajB1UKpAqYS54omXP053DCpxxp9BBQANackbHri7yUteEZFleJPo9QXnfM69B3Jhw2ohA9lfiFP2mlx3c4e0gqvW9kCeo2MyCyGpKS8tq6NBXQ4Lf7CHXY-WvF5jQ4qlDeXjYHPf/s640/pastels+sam.jpg" width="640" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I want to go down to Pizza Hut and think it’s a five-star restaurant. I want to think that M & M's are better than money because you can eat them. I want to wear my sparkly pink jelly shoes and think its the height of fashion. I want to have a whole slab of Cadbury's chocolate without feeling guilty afterwards. Remember when we could eat as much ice cream and french fries as our stomachs could bear, without even knowing what a calorie was? The only bad thing that could come out of eating an entire box of cookies and a slushie was a sugar rush. We had no care or concern about where on our hips the hidden saturated fats went to. <br /><br /><br /><br />I want to return to when all you knew were colours, multiplication, time tables and ABC's. When nursery rhymes were as simple as Jack & Jill and I hadn't a clue about who John Keats was. A bedtime story meant diving into a fairytale world where anything you imagined was real. Dragons, wizards, queens, fairy-god mothers, mirrors on the wall, a glass slipper and of course, the certainty that we will always get our Prince Charming in the end. I found that real life doesn't work out exactly that way. The princes have all been turned into frogs and glass slippers are really uncomfortable to walk in! I want to be able to believe in magic again. That when I toss a coin in a magic fountain, my wish will come true. </span><br /><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I want to go back to a time when things were simpler. When a jigsaw puzzle or a Barbie doll represented a whole week's worth of entertainment. When I didn't need a Smartphone, iPad, Xbox, Internet and Satellite TV to keep me busy – <i>all</i> at the same time. When the only time money mattered was in a game of Monopoly. When I thought that candy floss was a piece of a sugar dipped cloud. When you actually had an imagination. When magic really existed and it wasn't all just special effects created on a Hollywood set. </span><br /><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I want to think the world is fair. That everyone is honest, and good will always triumph over evil. When boys were just some annoying class disturbance and not the objection of our affections. When friends were real and you didn't care about their race or religion or if they were fat, skinny, pink, green or from a whole other planet, it just didn't matter. When we believed that all adults must know everything (How wrong we were about that!). When numbers on a scale didn't matter, when ballet skirts and bobby socks were still cute, jewellery was made out of macaroni, and make-up meant cherry lip balm and nothing else. </span><br /><br /><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I want to believe that anything is possible....all you have to do is Dream. I want the complexities of life to be unknown to me. I want to be completely ecstatic by the little things again like the sound of the ice cream van and the thrill of going to the zoo. I DON'T want to know about work stress, deadlines, taxes, designer clothes, relationship drama, popularity or gossip! I want to believe in the power of smiles, hugs, a kind word, truth, justice, peace, dreams and the goodness of human kind. </span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">So here are my car keys, makeup bag, credit cards, shopping bills, laptop and mobile phone... I am officially resigning from adulthood. </span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I will now proceed to find my way back to the playground...</span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><i><b><br /><br /></b></i></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><i><b>What do you miss most about your childhood?</b></i></span></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><i><b><br /><br /></b></i></span></div><div><br /><br /><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: xx-small;">*I was inspired to write and adapt this from a shorter version sent to me by email. I changed it to reflect my own childhood memories.</span></i><br /><br /><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: xx-small;">*All images found via weheartit.com</span></i><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: xx-small;"><i><br /><br /></i></span></div></div>

My Official Resignation

Today, I, Sam (of sound mind and judgement) would like to   Officially Hand in my Resignation as An Adult.   I have decided to accept the re...

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Happy Anti-Valentine's Day!

<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"></span><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNxkwcGD_bVMgarfry2N9vBLMYP0B8DXnADbtDXQUqWw9OZiTWI8jPrA3IEhOnNkmN5-gETkxh1B7nEiodwIcnJbFZxOl6_TxMtbrRYE6atbR83-kJF9CRzs_gLkXeeI0wmpdIxnCXegY/s1600/140_valentines_day.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNxkwcGD_bVMgarfry2N9vBLMYP0B8DXnADbtDXQUqWw9OZiTWI8jPrA3IEhOnNkmN5-gETkxh1B7nEiodwIcnJbFZxOl6_TxMtbrRYE6atbR83-kJF9CRzs_gLkXeeI0wmpdIxnCXegY/s400/140_valentines_day.jpg" width="352" /></a></div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I was sent a special request to re-publish this post for Valentine's Day, or should I say, </span></div><div><div style="margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; margin-top: 0px; text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Anti-Valentine's Day.</span></div></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">If you are completely love-wrecked &</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> have hearts in your eyes and butterflies in your stomach at the thought of receiving chocolates & roses today, then please don't read any further. If all the above makes you feel nauseous, then <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666;">Happy Anti-Valentine's Day</span> to you! I have never celebrated or partaken in the heart-filled holiday that is the 14th of February. Don't get me wrong, I am certainly not a melancholy, all-black wearing, <i>Nirvana/Evanescence</i> listening, gloomy Goth Girl who has an evil vendetta against the heart-shaped world. I am simply against the commercialization of a pretty little thing they call <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666;">L-O-V-E. </span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Every year, come Valentine's Day, a romantic epidemic breaks out, where people (who can't even spell sentimental), spend hundreds of Rands on dozens of red roses, boxes of chocolates, teddy bears, balloons and corny cards, all in an overbearing shade of red. They plan romantic getaways, soppy surprises, fancy dinners, and on this love-licensed day, become the ideal, charming and chivalrous partner who says and does all the right things. One day where people have a valid excuse to live out their <i>Notebook</i> equivalent of a love story, without being made fun of. And what happens on the other 364 days of the year? Absolutely nothing. </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">There shouldn't be just one day in a year that permits you to be an impassioned, affectionate swashbuckling soul. Sometimes the sweetest of gestures are most surprising and appreciated when you least expect it. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666;">Anti-Valentine's Day </span>should happen <span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-decoration: underline;">just</span> once a year, but the essence of 'Valentine's Day' should be celebrated everyday. </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #c27ba0; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><b><i>So Happy Unimaginative, Consumerist-Orientated and Entirely Arbitrary, Manipulative and Shallow Interpretation of Romance Day. </i></b></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">(No, I did not write that message myself. I read it on a card)</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">You didn't think I'd leave you empty handed on Anti-Valentine's Day, did you? </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Here's my gift to you:</span></div><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /><br /></div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqjSak6y3Arc3HuE-OnxCtYa76t0wbchRW6zcnNYXfhB1ALXEe0kDWbGl3n-8QHBGYVgbdek6_HMOoeDrfNnNHBeAWqKSNqhjac8xXYmhLEgxMuhdvcN3mIb20paIva5i-oCrPKxzrVkc/s1600/bittersweets.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="385" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjqjSak6y3Arc3HuE-OnxCtYa76t0wbchRW6zcnNYXfhB1ALXEe0kDWbGl3n-8QHBGYVgbdek6_HMOoeDrfNnNHBeAWqKSNqhjac8xXYmhLEgxMuhdvcN3mIb20paIva5i-oCrPKxzrVkc/s640/bittersweets.jpg" width="640" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">P.S I still haven't figured out why people buy the largest amount of red roses on the one day of the year when it's the most expensive. </span><br /><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i><br /><br /></i></span></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><i>*All text by me, Please do not republish. Pictures courtesy of Google images.</i></span> </span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div>

Happy Anti-Valentine's Day!

I was sent a special request to re-publish this post for Valentine's Day, or should I say,  Anti-Valentine's Day. If you are complet...

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My Christmas Weekend

<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: large;"><b>Ten Things I Did This Christmas</b></span><br /><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">1. Spent the four day weekend with 40 of my closest family members at the Alpine Heath Resort, which is set in the heart of the glorious Northern Drakensberg Mountains. It was fun, peaceful and relaxing, with none of the drama of <a href="http://frillsandthrills.blogspot.com/2010/12/mellow-mountain-escape.html">last year's trip</a>, thank goodness.</span><br /><br /><br /><br /><table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody><br /><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh22z4W4VGjkW5xLyP-lGwfMMkxYvRDCcT7mFb3X2GYiNflFxV-oxX1u3DLhyphenhyphen9gRRipzwL8JRGIw-x33WYoqLNHv_ED1a0TOB9kTNobdtIpJcfeTRtN379K0ZAdVUwJCHwQ3-Rz51tNoxFF/s1600/Alpine+.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="480" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh22z4W4VGjkW5xLyP-lGwfMMkxYvRDCcT7mFb3X2GYiNflFxV-oxX1u3DLhyphenhyphen9gRRipzwL8JRGIw-x33WYoqLNHv_ED1a0TOB9kTNobdtIpJcfeTRtN379K0ZAdVUwJCHwQ3-Rz51tNoxFF/s640/Alpine+.JPG" width="640" /></a></td></tr><br /><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The majestic Drakensberg Mountains</span></td></tr><br /></tbody></table><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span><br /><br /><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">2. Ate more ice cream in one weekend than I did the entire summer. I don't want to see another Paddle Pop again - or at least for the next week or two ;)</span></div><div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">3. Got my yearly dose of Vitamin D by spending an enormous amount of time relaxing by the pool, in the scorching midday sun.</span></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span><br /><br /><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody><br /><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtes_Ky0nRyZnJtrnnbYwhyQbrHW9v-LNOzVOFe-z_kusB5CMtO_jX9gFkJI-4SFTMuNWqU3j2POVBuwS5xqFe1wF_HBes7I42YhNuaFrDdalc6J_MDFwU1ymf82IuHQHahyphenhyphenyWssJ4kEuK/s1600/Alpine3.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="480" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjtes_Ky0nRyZnJtrnnbYwhyQbrHW9v-LNOzVOFe-z_kusB5CMtO_jX9gFkJI-4SFTMuNWqU3j2POVBuwS5xqFe1wF_HBes7I42YhNuaFrDdalc6J_MDFwU1ymf82IuHQHahyphenhyphenyWssJ4kEuK/s640/Alpine3.JPG" width="640" /></a></td></tr><br /><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The serene view from the spa </span></td></tr><br /></tbody></table><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">4.</span> <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Indulged in blissful treatments at the heavenly Alpine spa, which overlooked a tranquil lake and resplendent green mountains. It was so r that I only left because I probably would have been forcibly removed if I didn't.</span><br /><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">5. Watched 'Home Alone' on Christmas Day with six of my adorable little cousins. I remember seeing it all through my childhood years. It's still the best holiday movie around.</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span><br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjzbhWvFfrQdv4qAuasT6bSouv5tII4uWbJqHAEPdyktg_R2LH-H91l-oOFPsNcLyZR2Z2aw85UZ_gJaLmRlX_dJvqkLcGvi7BDnfjv7W_5t_IyU01L5PSZ3Zv8gtHvTtF-DPfNBZrSaRVP/s1600/Alpine.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="426" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjzbhWvFfrQdv4qAuasT6bSouv5tII4uWbJqHAEPdyktg_R2LH-H91l-oOFPsNcLyZR2Z2aw85UZ_gJaLmRlX_dJvqkLcGvi7BDnfjv7W_5t_IyU01L5PSZ3Zv8gtHvTtF-DPfNBZrSaRVP/s640/Alpine.jpg" width="640" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">6. Befriended a peacock who took shelter at our chalet during a rain storm. It was the first time I've seen one of these magnificent creatures up-close. They are truly beautiful.</span><br /><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">7. Got hoaxed into going for a hike. I seriously don't know how this happened, as I am the least outdoorsy person around.</span><br /><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">8. Wore harem pants after I swore that I wouldn't in </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><a href="http://frillsandthrills.blogspot.com/2011/10/what-not-to-wearever.html">this post</a></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">. What was I thinking?</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span><br /><br /><table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody><br /><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZU3mwYHTyvZrhJXfQtCnCtNjpDp5EcnA0ZXdDXg2LxH5I-CmB8OX6GMrXubjyV_X-FbaeX47sZ_Ex8_hrhZha80P0B4ctan3ae3exGnl011J-LikOjYEU_WoMxiXR3H83sQsSM1doE83S/s1600/Alpine1.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="480" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiZU3mwYHTyvZrhJXfQtCnCtNjpDp5EcnA0ZXdDXg2LxH5I-CmB8OX6GMrXubjyV_X-FbaeX47sZ_Ex8_hrhZha80P0B4ctan3ae3exGnl011J-LikOjYEU_WoMxiXR3H83sQsSM1doE83S/s640/Alpine1.JPG" width="640" /></a></td></tr><br /><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">A view of the resort</span></td></tr><br /></tbody></table><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">9. After winning 3 consecutive games of <i>30 Seconds </i>in a row, my team (aka <i>The</i> <i>Gossip Girls</i>) lost the grande finale against the team of underdogs (aka Our Mums aka <i>The Desperate Housewives</i>), who until that moment had lost <i>every</i> other game. And there were a lot, believe me. They even beat out our main competitors - aka our brainiac dads, whose team was aptly named <i>The Big Bang Theory</i>. Looking forward to next year's championship, we will come prepared for victory ;)</span><br /><br /><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">10. Most importantly, I spent quality time with my awe-inspiring family over good food, good laughs and we created great new memories. And there are no amount of gifts in the world which can top that.</span><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;"><i>*All photos taken by me, except the reception area.</i></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;"><i><br /><br /></i></span></div></div></div>

My Christmas Weekend

Ten Things I Did This Christmas 1. Spent the four day weekend with 40 of my closest family members at the Alpine Heath Resort, which is set ...

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Frills & Thrills First Birthday

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">365 days, 52 weeks, 12 months...is it one year already?</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><br /><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRrpyhlu2jRcVUBlneXxutrqz-1KeyDKdezzaX_6tdtMdsDkM9zQ7TErmxJ89R5E_bxAFNvuX4FJVWf-QRijZqh6JKjGb_83VtZXl_UKOAXzxeOKyK3UEx3gq1qREPp6q_I6i_xXXqZ4PQ/s1600/blogbirthday.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRrpyhlu2jRcVUBlneXxutrqz-1KeyDKdezzaX_6tdtMdsDkM9zQ7TErmxJ89R5E_bxAFNvuX4FJVWf-QRijZqh6JKjGb_83VtZXl_UKOAXzxeOKyK3UEx3gq1qREPp6q_I6i_xXXqZ4PQ/s640/blogbirthday.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I am not the ceremonial type, but I think 'mentioning' that today is my first blog birthday doesn't steep <i>too</i> deep into the pool of vanity. My dream of being a fashion designer never materialized, so I figured that those who can't sew, blog. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #a64d79;">Frills & Thrills</span> sums up the two things I am most passionate about - fashion and writing. Upon seeing my blog for the first time, people who know me personally say "It's so you!" Initially, I had no idea how to regard this overused phrase, but over the year, I've formed a clearer idea of what it means. </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #a64d79;">Frills & Thrills </span>is personal extension of who I am. A lover of pink (in refined moderation), an admirer of fashion (from runway to red carpet), the girliest of girls, a devisor of words, and a teller of tales. All this served up with a spark of enthusiasm, a spoonful of sarcasm and a sprinkling of fairy dust from the closets of <i>Vogue</i>. I may only </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">have t</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">he smallest bit of space on the World Wide Web, but it is a space that's I am delighted to call my own.</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><br /><br /></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">So thank you to my friends and family for your unconditional support and encouragement. I am always elated at receiving your calls, emails or smses about something you've seen and liked here on <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #a64d79;">Frills & Thrills.</span> And most importantly, thanks to you, reading this right now. Even if you've stopped by just once, whether you're in transit to some place else, or if you're a regular reader...I am so thrilled to have you visit this frilly space I call home. I don't like the word 'Follower', because in order to be 'followed', one would have to be a leader. And <i>that </i>I am not. Instead, I consider you to be a good friend with whom I can share my thoughts, views and perceptions on all things style-bound and fashion-able.</span><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Here's to the very first <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #a64d79;">Frills & Thrills</span> birthday! </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I will now proceed to cut the virtual pink vanilla cake and share a piece with all of you. The best thing about it? No added calories ;)</span><br /><br /><br /><br /><i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: xx-small;">*Images found via Tumblr & Google Images. Collage created by me.</span></i><br /><br /><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div>

Frills & Thrills First Birthday

365 days, 52 weeks, 12 months...is it one year already? I am not the ceremonial type, but I think 'mentioning' that today is my firs...

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Reluctantly Reunited

<span id="goog_1908084231"></span><span id="goog_1908084232"></span><br /><br /><div><br /><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgR7ohYkPlXkDQch_i8hQJnKdltPKwUhjWhsxcDsE7VSgqM1yY0hPWF3napWGP5ZwvuTFQaTB1VRnsAa0fVYZJGRZcHdR44TneBpxGAq80B0q4X0ilZ3hm1XaGfGZvs8cvN0tjXeHWcG49N/s1600/glee+collage.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-decoration: none;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgR7ohYkPlXkDQch_i8hQJnKdltPKwUhjWhsxcDsE7VSgqM1yY0hPWF3napWGP5ZwvuTFQaTB1VRnsAa0fVYZJGRZcHdR44TneBpxGAq80B0q4X0ilZ3hm1XaGfGZvs8cvN0tjXeHWcG49N/s1600/glee+collage.jpg" /></a></div><br /><br /><br /><br /><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /><br /><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">This weekend I attended a terribly organised high school get-together. I say 'terribly' organised, because there were no invitations sent out for the event or, if there were, most of us didn't get one. Unless that was the point...hmmm. I ended up going anyway, sans misplaced invite; where a meagre 25 out of our entire class of 150 students turned up.</span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><div style="text-align: auto;"><br /><br /></div></span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><div style="text-align: justify;">I heard about the gathering from a few friends – some of which refused to attend, claiming that they “didn't want to see <i>those</i> people again”. I see that high school politics don't just stay in school. It can follow you through life long afterwards. Initially, I didn't plan on going, but at the last minute, curiosity got the better of me as I wondered what everyone from our class had gotten up to in the past few years. It took me ages to walk the short distance from my car to the Sporthius (sports centre). I must have stopped at least five times on the way, freezing in 5 degree weather; thinking, “Should I go? Should I turn back? I haven't seen any of these people in ages. How awkward is it going to be?"</div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;">By the time I made it there (after much debate), most of the folks were merrily punch drunk, so if any of them didn't recognize me, I'm assuming it's because they had blurry vision. I must also admit that <i>I</i> (in my completely sober state) could barely recognize anyone either. Who would have thought that people I'd known my whole schooling career could change so much in such a short time. The ones you'd least expect (and who used to slack off at school) have established high-powered, successful careers, and the ones I never thought would settle down are now married, <span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-decoration: underline;">with</span> kids. Some are living their big city dreams, while others found contentment in the simplicity of small town life. No one was surprised to find out that I am still somehow 'involved' with fashion. </div><div style="text-align: justify;"><br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: auto;">It was marvelous catching up with good old friends, and even better to see that they have remained as warm and wonderful as I remembered. It was also unfortunate to see that the people who thought that they were better than everyone else back then, still do. Every high school cliché that you watch in the movies truly does exist; each person I met at the reunion is living proof of it. It's funny how certain titles stay with you for the rest of your life.<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><br /><br />I'm actually glad that I went, it made me look back and appreciate how easy and uncomplicated things were. All we lived for were those 30 minute lunch breaks and school holidays; and the most stressful thing we ever had to encounter was the next maths exam.<br /><br />All those awful Accounting lessons, Physics extra class and Shakespeare essays were almost worth it in the end. <i>Almost</i>. High school was just a drop in the ocean of life...we all have so many more seas to swim, paths to travel, storms to face and rays of sunshine to bask in.<br /><br /><br /><br /></div></span>

Reluctantly Reunited

This weekend I attended a terribly organised high school get-together. I say 'terribly' organised, because there were no invitations...

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A Weekend Wedding in KZN

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEis5PphsKZ82HECO85XAYL6QpbzdZCyL8rlyQAZmU_Qcs49ZZtRg9iSxlIEWoQaVw_vlcf73_vH_8lU1Jj6gMsrwufmz0eFGFVEwpOG_nv7ZprFFCbFfCWbopA8Xmm8EvL25mF5ttudpxY/s1600/lilac+wedding+3.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEis5PphsKZ82HECO85XAYL6QpbzdZCyL8rlyQAZmU_Qcs49ZZtRg9iSxlIEWoQaVw_vlcf73_vH_8lU1Jj6gMsrwufmz0eFGFVEwpOG_nv7ZprFFCbFfCWbopA8Xmm8EvL25mF5ttudpxY/s640/lilac+wedding+3.jpg" width="512" /></a></div><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Close family weddings are always something to look forward to. They don't happen often, but when they do, it turns out to be a wondrous and unforgettable event. This weekend, I attended the wedding of my dearest cousin, (who is more like a brother to me), in sunny KZN. We were more than happy to leave the bitterly cold weather behind and travel across the country to the warm and welcoming coast.</span></div><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The wheel of festivities starting spinning on Thursday, with an intimate luncheon for 60 people; and it didn't stop from there. We held function upon function, all remarkably organized by my Aunt Nas, who is an events co-ordinator extraordinaire. She could easily take over from Colin Cowie. On Thursday night, the guests were all surprised by a show and dance, led by the groomsmen. We were in stitches when they showed up in wigs, dresses, stockings and stilettos. I must admit they dance better in heels than I do. It ended with the usual fun tradition where everyone was caught in storm of talcum powder. </span></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Friday had us scurrying around, as we had two pre-wedding events to set up. A huge lunch and later that evening, a braai bash for 400. It took a small, dedicated army three hours to transform an empty hall into an exquisitely decorated venue. Amidst all the chaos, my cousin Ray and I still had to write the wedding speech. We used the Bed & Breakfast as a boardroom and with the help of a few family members, the speech was drafted into quite an epic one.</span><br /><br /><div style="text-align: auto;"><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The anticipation finally culminated on Saturday at a grand wedding reception for a thousand people. We all love an excuse to get dressed up in custom made gowns and have our make-up and hair done. Although, my curls fell apart even before I reached the venue. I think the stylist used water spritzer as hairspray. The vintage styled decor came together elegantly with ivory lace over lavender tablecloths, antique gold frames and mirrors, crystal candelabras and pink and lilac roses. The bride was gorgeous in a fully beaded fishtail gown with lace veil, and the groom handsome in a black tux. The smitten couple were unfazed by the large crowd and constant flash photography.<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span></span></div><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"></div><div style="text-align: auto;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">In a short five hours the beautiful ceremony was over and our lives had to sadly go back to normal. In an attempt to extend the weekend, we decided to throw an 'after-party', which didn't work out according to plan, as we couldn't find a venue open after 12:30am. Eventually, the beachfront <i>Elangeni</i> Hotel lent the thirty of us their second floor lounge and room service menu. It took one and a half hours to get our order - toasted cheese and coffee has never tasted as good as it did at 3 in the morning.</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span></span></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><div style="text-align: auto;">With the whirlwind of a weekend over, we returned home and back to the cold yesterday. I woke up this morning with a massive hangover, aching feet, a terrible migraine and a bronchitis. But it was all worth it. I had a chance to bond with my awe-inspiring family, spend time with my adorable little cousins, pose for dozens of portraits, mint our own money, share tears after a heartfelt speech, laugh till our sides hurt, and create wonderful memories that we'll talk about when we're all old and grey. </div></span><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: left;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><span id="goog_1872642760"></span><span id="goog_1872642761"></span>

A Weekend Wedding in KZN

Close family weddings are always something to look forward to. They don't happen often, but when they do, it turns out to be a wondrous ...

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The Suitcase System

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgaLZbrgyzewPYSjdyCw6SIGvr5c85gP-bSxmEZEoBnyub2OFENJrxyHxnjngCNhyxkiKNjlETT5Tuaf_e8A85hBUkMi049i6-rkKygmv9SEkIPhOgEJYOtmFlBRhgDromo5HHwRJu-X5g/s1600/pink+bags.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgaLZbrgyzewPYSjdyCw6SIGvr5c85gP-bSxmEZEoBnyub2OFENJrxyHxnjngCNhyxkiKNjlETT5Tuaf_e8A85hBUkMi049i6-rkKygmv9SEkIPhOgEJYOtmFlBRhgDromo5HHwRJu-X5g/s1600/pink+bags.jpg" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">One of my pet peeves is packing. I think has something to do with my indecisiveness, I can never make up my mind on what to take and what to leave out. Also, I am a minimalist packer, I only take what's absolutely necessary and nothing more. I once met a girl who had her entire weeks' outfits planned on an Excel spreadsheet, down to the last sock. This seemed a bit extreme but maybe it's good to be <i>that</i> organized. So, to save on time, I developed my own 'Suitcase System'; which is a foolproof plan designed to make the agonizing packing process a smooth and easy one. Now what used to take me hours to pack a bag for a weekend away, literally takes ten minutes.<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666;">My Suitcase System works as follows:<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black; font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black; font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black; font-family: Times;"></span></span></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*I only pack outfits that I have worn before and know look decent and fit well. This saves me from trying on a million different things.</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*My failsafe outfits include two pairs of jeans or tights with a few pretty tops. One casual for daytime, one dressier for a night out.</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*I stick to creaseproof clothes in the same colour palette, so that I only have to pack one or two pairs of shoes to match. </span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*I take one neutral coloured handbag that will go with everything.</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*A few accessories that can multitask with all outfits. </span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*A black tailored jacket that works well over anything.</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Four items of make-up. </span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*I also keep a vanity bag fully stocked with all the necessities, so I never have to pack one <i>each</i> time I go out. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">It all goes into a small lightweight bag that can easily fit in the passenger seat of a car. This packing procedure proved to be successful every time...until now. This week I have the daunting task of packing a bag for a 4-day wedding weekend. I tried applying the above rules to this mission, but it just doesn't work. The whole system crashed! I will tell you why.<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666;">This is what I have to pack:<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black; font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black; font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black; font-family: Times;"></span></span></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Four casual day outfits - four tops or dresses and four pairs of jeans/tights.</span></span></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Two semi-formal outfits</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Winter jackets</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*A couple of cocktail dresses</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*One evening gown, actually two, incase the first one doesn't pan out</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Eight pairs of shoes</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Three handbags and three clutch bags to match each outfit</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*A hair iron, hair dryer and hair products.</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*A clothes steamer</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*A box full of fascinators</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*Accessories to match each outfit. Belts, earrings, chains, bracelets and rings.</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">*A make-up bag with half the contents of a MAC counter.<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I have begun packing 2 days in advance but haven't gotten anywhere. With all the pre-wedding events and unpredictable coastal weather, I have no idea what to pack. So I'm taking as many options as possible. At this rate, I will be hiring a trailer to lug my luggage 300km across the country. You think I need luck now...just think about when I have to come back home and <i>Un</i>pack.</span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></span></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span>

The Suitcase System

One of my pet peeves is packing. I think has something to do with my indecisiveness, I can never make up my mind on what to take and what to...

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A Small Town City Girl

<div></div><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-lWgVq62p43M/TchX1tn4OhI/AAAAAAAAAjQ/wVkPi97-Ujs/s1600/city.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" style="text-decoration: none;"> </a><br /><br /><div><br /><br /><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-lWgVq62p43M/TchX1tn4OhI/AAAAAAAAAjQ/wVkPi97-Ujs/s1600/city.jpg" onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" style="text-decoration: none;"><img alt="" border="0" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5604826316554123794" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-lWgVq62p43M/TchX1tn4OhI/AAAAAAAAAjQ/wVkPi97-Ujs/s1600/city.jpg" style="display: block; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; margin-top: 0px; text-align: left;" /></a><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: verdana, serif; line-height: 26px;"></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span>Growing up in my pink little bubble in Small Town, SA, I was quite oblivious to the bigger and some what intimidating world out there. Although not technically a farm, we have the luxury of breathing in fresh, unpolluted air, live amidst green open fields, peaceful streets and picturesque mountains. The furthest you have to drive to go anywhere is 5 minutes, In fact, you could even safely walk to your destination. The only kind of traffic you'd have to worry about are the small herds of cows or goats, that harmoniously reside amongst the lush meadows and cozy residences. Everyone knows everyone in the hamlet, which can be advantageous, because theres always a helping hand literally around the corner. On the other hand, it can be slightly annoying with the entire population always knowing your every move.<br /><br /><br /><br />City Slickers live under the misconception that we on the countryside, or 'rural areas' as it's been called, don't have basic amenities such as electricity & running water. This is far from the truth, as we have most of what they have, just on a much smaller & simpler scale. We may not be able to pop down to Woolworths Food to purchase organic strawberries, but better still, we can get it from our local grocer, newly picked from a nearby farm, and at half the price too. Another countryside component people ask me about is how we survive without any malls, cinemas and fancy restaurants. I suppose when you grow up without extravagant entertainment options, you make the best of what you have.<br /><br /><br /><br />My school down the road, not only offered a solid, dual medium education, but also provided a social playground. Kids grow up playing outside without fancy gadgets and without shoes, riding their bikes across leafy streets, camping out on weekends & enjoying the innocence and beauty of childhood. Instead of shopping for designer clothes to wear to the movies, friends got together to play sports & boardgames, or watch DVD's & have slumber parties. It didn't matter what clothes you wore, what kind of mobile phone you owned or if you even had one, or what social background you came from. You were accepted and liked for who you are. It was a blissful, carefree life, the only one I had known...well, until I began the “Campus Girl” Chapter of my life.<br /><br /><br /><br />Moving to The City had me wrapped up in an anxious knot, excited by relocation but also fearing the unknown. I had often made many weekend visits to the City of Gold, and vacationed at the Cape & KZN Coast, but actually living in a city left me feeling a little jellyfish out of water. My first week of orientation as a bemused Bachelor of Arts student was a complete culture shock. Verdant valleys & picket fences long forgotten, I had stepped into a concrete world of shadowing skyscrapers & reckless roadsters. Besides the smoggy air clogging up my lungs, the nightmarish traffic turned a 20 minute journey to university into an hour long, snail paced drive. The cool crowd on campus would only be friends with you if you 'fit in' to their savvy city lifestyles; wearing the right brands, cruising around in fancy cars and hanging out at the hottest venues, all armed with street conceit smart attitudes. I refused to be consumed by it all, afraid I would lose my sense of self & forget the unpretentious world I came from. I became disillusioned with the bright lights, fast lives and freeways. Far from what I had anticipated, I began to research the benefits of long distance learning.<br /><br /><br /><br />Upon receiving the campus diary & lecture schedule, I tried to decipher the cryptic subject codes & allocated time slots. I longed for straightforward school days where your form teacher told where you had to be at what time and that ENG 154 was just English and not linguistics or lexicography. My spirits were drowned, rather than dampened when I found out, in order to receive the required credits, I needed to take up 26 modules. In One Year. I had back to back, overlapping, hour long classes in different, distant venues & adding to the stress of it all, poetry at university level made my entire Matric syllabus look like a preschool nursery rhyme. Returning my copy of Norton's Anthology, I took up Anthropology instead. It was then, I wondered whether if it was too late to take a gap year.<br /><br /><br /><br />However, once my the first set of lectures began, a new wave of creative encouragement aerated my deflated aspirations. I was inspired by the compelling contents of my study material, knowledgeable lecturers, and even the vast, dusty lecture halls filled with students just as confused as I was. It was here that I met my kindred spirits, both also studying Journalism. Once the initial 'Hello's' and introductions were exchanged, we instantly clicked, connected by our love for all things Glamour, Cosmo, frills and thrills. They became my support system, my home away from home, ensuring that my 4 year stay in the city was an unforgettable one.<br /><br /><br /><br />My metamorphosis from Small Town to City Girl became an amazing adventure, fulfilled by mall-hopping, class skipping, note copying, faithful friendship and of course, some studying in between.<br /><br /><br /><br />I realised that living a city life doesn't change who you are, as I will always a small town girl at heart.</span></div>

A Small Town City Girl

Growing up in my pink little bubble in Small Town, SA, I was quite oblivious to the bigger and some what intimidating world out there. Alth...

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Wedding Season

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLwjJooQ5jBq46UCr7RZzwWNuhfBgbaPbdtuIe7SLFEmJmpEurM3-YjLNu933LYNzHaEtYKq4c3I8yHR2vyI2qNXTj4u7O6Nw3zPHpcgujQOq4wJKU7eM18PGuetuSJmm3F9YhpUrMolY/s1600/wedding+gowns.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="432" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiLwjJooQ5jBq46UCr7RZzwWNuhfBgbaPbdtuIe7SLFEmJmpEurM3-YjLNu933LYNzHaEtYKq4c3I8yHR2vyI2qNXTj4u7O6Nw3zPHpcgujQOq4wJKU7eM18PGuetuSJmm3F9YhpUrMolY/s640/wedding+gowns.jpg" width="640" /></a></div><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Wedding Season...a time for dress-fittings, hair styling, gift buying, tantrum throwing, shop hopping, floral arranging, food tasting, table setting, crash dieting, disaster dodging and complete fits of mania. And that's just the guests. Can you imagine what the bride goes through? </span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">My weekends have been spent traveling around the country attending these fabulous <i>little</i> affairs. By little, I mean a 400-guest-event. A thousand people is usually considered a 'fair' amount. The most interesting element of <i>beau </i><i>monde</i> weddings are the people. It's not the bride or groom; but the guests that really pull the whole show together. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The venue, bridal couple and decor may be different at every wedding, but it's the guests' conduct that's always the same. As an observant wedding watcher, I am going to tell you a little about what goes on behind the traditional society wedding. </span></span></span></span></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">When it comes to fashion, every woman will plan on what to wear for months prior to the function. Something that was just 'lying' in her cupboard simply won't do. She can't buy a dress off the rack; imagine the horror if someone else pitches up in the exact same outfit. So the next best thing is to fly over to Dubai and buy a gorgeous gown that she knows no one else in South Africa will have. If that's not possible, she will buy R3000-a-metre fabric and have one of SA's leading designers make her a customized gown. And it doesn't end there. There are matching shoes to be bought, clutch bags and jewellery. There are also all the pre-wedding parties to dress up for. Once the outfits are organized, hair appointments and make-up trials are set up for the week. One really has to look their best at <span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-decoration: underline;">someone else's</span> wedding. It's like an episode of <i>'</i>The Real Housewives of Elite South Africa'.<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The wedding reception is a place to celebrate the blissful union with family and friends, and also to dissect every little thing in between. And I mean <i>every </i>thing. The wedding-guest-turned-critic will break down and analyze every tiny component of the reception - the serviette holders, the colour of the tablecloths, the welcome drinks, the height of the centerpiece and the future mother-in-law. Then there's the food. Every guest somehow turns into a judge from <i>MasterChef, </i>fastidiously tasting and reviewing each dish with their newly 'evolved' palette. It's a rare occasion when all parties are entirely satisfied with the meal.</span></span></span></span></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Weddings are also the perfect hunting ground where doting mums search for prospective daughters-in-law (without their son's knowledge or permission). Having a creamy complexion, green eyes and brown hair will put you on top of the eligible bachelorette list. When approached, the first thing these young single ladies will ask, "Is he cute? What car does he drive?". Weddings *sigh*...the site upon which solid and sincere relationships are built.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Finally, there's the dreaded but amusing chitchat. It's funny how the exact same conversation loom arounds every wedding I attend. Gossip is the <i>actual </i>centerpiece of each table; shadowing it with an equal amount of flattering and disparaging remarks. There are standard questions and comments that spread through the voluble (female) crowd. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">If you don't speak wedding talk, this is what you can expect to hear:<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black; font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black; font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: black; font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">^Did you see what she's wearing? It's lovely/hideous.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">^Who designed her gown?</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">^The bride looks like such a sweet/sulky/ person.</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">^They make such a nice pair <i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666;">or</span></i><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666;"> </span></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">^She's far too nice for him. Probably just married for the money.</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">^The food is so bland/delicious.</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">^Don't they have anything else to drink?</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">^What's for dessert? (Usually said right after a hearty 5 course meal)</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">^Have you seen any nice patterns?</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">^The decor is so old fashioned. Have they not heard of stretch draping?</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666;">Said to young pretty lasses:</span></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">^Are you single? Can I hook you up with my nephew/cousin/son/grandson?</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">^You're taken? When are you getting married?</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">^You're married? When do you plan on having kids? <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">That's just the word exchange within the first fifteen minutes. I suggest you take some Aspirin along, you may need it after the 4-hour-affair. I have five more weddings to attend this season. Wish me luck!</span></span></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span>

Wedding Season

Wedding Season...a time for dress-fittings, hair styling, gift buying, tantrum throwing, shop hopping, floral arranging, food tasting, table...

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Pet Names

<div style="text-align: justify;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPlaLuDVCDnLSycY-lrAaFbKj1B6OFj21C2IjxgPxFWZ7sA2KcPAtCkz2aj8hCC13JJJTH05fkwruwN0_ysNFN1loUi4Yw8cVe4JKvGUlWCmWVwfWTjQdOn-qkokxJyIwMe5EB30Sg2Bk/s1600/cute-pets.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-align: justify;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPlaLuDVCDnLSycY-lrAaFbKj1B6OFj21C2IjxgPxFWZ7sA2KcPAtCkz2aj8hCC13JJJTH05fkwruwN0_ysNFN1loUi4Yw8cVe4JKvGUlWCmWVwfWTjQdOn-qkokxJyIwMe5EB30Sg2Bk/s1600/cute-pets.jpg" /></a></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">People have different ideas and preferences when picking out a name for their pet. There are so many special and distinctive names out there, that it's difficult to decide on just one. So how do pet owners go about it</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">?<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Most commonly, names that are chosen reflect the appearance or colour of the animal. Like <i>Fuzzy, Flopsy, Smudge, Fudge or Snowflake</i>. Gender-specific names are popular too, like <i>Coco Chanel</i> for a girl and <i>Louis Vuitton</i> for a boy. Names are also based on a pet's personality: <i>Sassy </i>if it's cheeky, <i>Bashful</i> if it's shy or <i>Scamp </i>if it's mischievous. Others associate sweet confectionery with their pets, like <i>Oreo, Biscuit</i> and <i>Cupcake. </i>Sometimes, a pet name can go beyond just the physical aspect or cuteness factor. It can stem from something, well, slightly different. That's how I found a name for my pet.<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I got my cat when it was about 5 months old. It had sadly been abandoned by it's previous owners. I immediately took to this lovable & adorable feline with fluffy white fur & ginger points. Being the first time I had a <i>real </i>pet (goldfish don't count), I had no idea what to call it. <i>Fluffy</i> was too common, <i>Gingersnap </i>reminded me of a Spice Girl. I considered giving it a name according to it's gender. As I am completely ignorant (and unwilling) to find this out myself; I called upon a close and self-proclaimed animal lover, who was also an Anatomy major at university. He professed that my new cat was a girl. I looked up all sorts of girly names for her. <i>Tinker, Mitzy, Trixie, Buttercup, Minx - </i>I just couldn't decide. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I then got some inspiration from an event I was planning at work. It was an Egyptian themed Women's Day function, to which my bff and I dressed up as <i>Cleopatra. </i>That's when I thought, hmmm, <i>Cleopatra</i> - <i>Cleo</i> for short, that's a pretty name. <i>And</i> my cat has this curious way of always sitting like a little Sphinx.<i> </i>Perfect, I will name her<i> Cleo.<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, sans-serif;"> </span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;">Everyone</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: normal;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> I know gushed and 'awww-ed' when I introduce them to her.<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Two weeks after <i>Cleopatra</i> moved in, she got really sick, and for the first and panicked time, I had to locate a vet in Small Town, SA. I found out that there is only one vet in our town, and it was lucky that I got an appointment. <i>Cleo </i>had a thorough check up and a few vaccines (I couldn't bear to watch). With eyes closed in the consultation room, I asked the vet, "Is she going to be okay? I just got her." He courteously and unflinchingly replied, "No need to worry, <i>he</i> is going to be just fine." He? <i>Cleopatra</i> is a boy?! I can't tell you how embarrassed I was. Poor Cleo, no wonder he got sick, it's from the gender-identity crisis I had caused him.<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">By then, everyone was already used to calling <span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-decoration: line-through;">her</span> him <i>Cleo </i>and so the name kinda stuck. It could have been a lot worse. Imagine if I had named him <i>Lulubelle</i> or something frillier. Although pet names are a personal choice, it should at least indicate whether it's a boy or girl. And don't rely on so-called animal lovers to figure this out, always ask the vet, that's why they studied for 6 years.<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I wanted to post a picture of Cleo<i>, </i>however, he refused to put his paw print on the photo release forms. He is just mortified since this whole incident. So I had to get a body double to pose in his place. The cutie below looks slightly similar to <i>Cleo</i> and it seems that they have the same pastime</span>.<br /><br /></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></i></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqV_bWEL8af3rHa9ebCnox85cd9GFq_sDs6ORhhQD4tvfShncFcUZp9bGgEuajMMnx_Knoo1Q0gNDX1wgody504dsJ0dm59SEw2L77aULiwQwaJ70TRLqS6btLnyzwQnc1NcC9ijJa6tQ/s1600/cute+cats.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqV_bWEL8af3rHa9ebCnox85cd9GFq_sDs6ORhhQD4tvfShncFcUZp9bGgEuajMMnx_Knoo1Q0gNDX1wgody504dsJ0dm59SEw2L77aULiwQwaJ70TRLqS6btLnyzwQnc1NcC9ijJa6tQ/s1600/cute+cats.jpg" /></a></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span>

Pet Names

People have different ideas and preferences when picking out a name for their pet. There are so many special and distinctive names out there...

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A Newsless Newspaper

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhtEKLYhdE4FWCuWDsjg-i0liRn0fb10Y2AXNknlf0fXPEgTq5ECfllmKQXRCl0BHVtrCjRE4zRn96p7PllORogjCzaMUpOSGWkc40ceoukELWz_FCcxx0iXqLHxXjeB97Dg9xYSDd3cpI/s1600/newspaper.png" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhtEKLYhdE4FWCuWDsjg-i0liRn0fb10Y2AXNknlf0fXPEgTq5ECfllmKQXRCl0BHVtrCjRE4zRn96p7PllORogjCzaMUpOSGWkc40ceoukELWz_FCcxx0iXqLHxXjeB97Dg9xYSDd3cpI/s1600/newspaper.png" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">In Small Town, SA, nothing noteworthy really happens. We do have occasional offenses, minor political problems and some farm related issues. When these incidents occur, you can read about it in our local newspaper. 3 weeks after it happens or, most likely, not at all. </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I recall the first thing I learnt about 'the news' in a Journalism lecture at university. That it's new, topical and based on current events that are significant to the society it is aimed at. That does <span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-decoration: underline;">not</span> apply here in Small Town, SA. Our local and only newspaper has been running since 1903, and since then, the only thing that has changed is the introduction of colour photos. It comes out once a week, which is too often, as there is nothing relevant to fill the pages. Actually, there is, but you would probably hear about it from your next door neighbour, not your newspaper. I have no idea why they completely omit 'the news', as there <i>is</i> news to report on. Wherever you go, no matter how small or boring a place is, there will <span class="Apple-style-span">always</span> be something to write about.</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">During the medical strikes of last year, our newspaper failed to report about the seriously ill patients that were turned away from the hospital, or the extent to which innocent people suffered. During the school strikes, there was no mention of the worried teachers, panicked parents or rebellious students. Nor the vandalism and intimidation that came with it. Two years ago, I heard over a national radio station about a major uprising against the mayor in our town. Our newspaper seemed oblivious to the riots and homes set alight. A string of violent crimes took place recently, but that too, of course was not important enough to feature in our local paper. So what then is? </span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Well, each week, the front page story will almost always have something to do with the local high school. Students that did well in exams or victorious sports teams, cheerleaders, concerts or any other trivial school event. The next page will be a religious note, followed by 2 more pages of school news. Then a 'Women's Page' with copied-and-pasted health articles and really unappetizing recipes. This is followed by the last few pages, which reports on local sporting events. By sporting events, I mean school rugby and hockey matches and weekly results from the golf club. In between all the 'news', there are promotions, classifieds and adverts, which finance this publication. There are more advertorials than there are editorials.</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I shudder to think that if the high school or golf club closed down, we may not have a newspaper at all. Maybe that's actually not such a bad thought. Perhaps you're wondering why I never applied to write for our paper. When I completed my Journalism degree, it was the first thing I did. However, they told me that they didn't need any 'journalists' to write for their paper, and they were doing pretty fine just as they were. At least I tried, so now I don't have to feel guilty about <span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-decoration: underline;">not</span> informing the community every time something newsworthy <span class="Apple-style-span" style="text-decoration: underline;">does</span> happen. That's what we have neighbours for anyway, right? To tell us about the news. Newspapers are <i>so</i> 1903, they have become obsolete :P</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">So, as this farm-town newspaper has no real use, I have decided to collect my weekly copies and turn it into something fashionable. I'm going to use the picture below as inspiration ;)</span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0ZEBvngeSaaErt0gN0Is5bNzbiFQPFGEQ6ii9v709vf4vT9dqbvtdMTRR-CwdU3bU8r3WLZ9SWo9axBDa4YeycuObQKBoUo5J9gfT3aclxBGhdzPm9PP8ziV5cAQf65gq_3alueVSWPA/s1600/newspaper+dress.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh0ZEBvngeSaaErt0gN0Is5bNzbiFQPFGEQ6ii9v709vf4vT9dqbvtdMTRR-CwdU3bU8r3WLZ9SWo9axBDa4YeycuObQKBoUo5J9gfT3aclxBGhdzPm9PP8ziV5cAQf65gq_3alueVSWPA/s400/newspaper+dress.jpg" width="265" /></a></div>

A Newsless Newspaper

In Small Town, SA, nothing noteworthy really happens. We do have occasional offenses, minor political problems and some farm related issues....

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Awards Show Anatomy

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPaThSgiSG5ed1VXMrli-lhkkPOO3N9P_7gDMh20L6a4V4iDGEtJnkb-DG5flhUcaPqah2OhzgaBQMTpEszEIxmAScRFlzOggjcCmiI9Vy0nJS7afDQFppLA4vIDmSB4OFLtwVuv1-juE/s1600/star+trophy.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPaThSgiSG5ed1VXMrli-lhkkPOO3N9P_7gDMh20L6a4V4iDGEtJnkb-DG5flhUcaPqah2OhzgaBQMTpEszEIxmAScRFlzOggjcCmiI9Vy0nJS7afDQFppLA4vIDmSB4OFLtwVuv1-juE/s320/star+trophy.jpg" width="221" /></a></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Awards Season is well underway in all it's glittery, frivolous glory, where actors, directors and producers are made out to be far more important than they really are. I cannot bear to watch another 4 hour dreary display of dull humour and lengthy speeches, endured by bored audiences, who senselessly applaud every spoken word.</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">You don't need to keep track of every awards show to realise that the formula has stayed exactly the same since the 1920's. VIP guests get dressed up, interviewed and photographed by worldwide media, then proceed to the exclusively designed auditorium. I wonder what it would be like if they didn't spend hundreds of thousands of wasted dollars on creating the show, decor, food, gifts and gowns. Can you imagine celebrities dressed in organic, natural fiber non-designer dresses, surviving in an un-airconditioned community hall, with specially carved wooden planks as awards. Definitely not.</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Every year, the chosen presenter will <i>try </i>to entertain the unamused crowd with terrible jokes, and they are <i>always</i> terrible. The funniest thing about these shows is when the winner of each category in announced. Each of the 5 nominees will sit on the edge of their seats, wishing and praying that it's their name called out. When it's not, they will smile politely, gritting their teeth and fighting back the urge not to scream or even whisper any curse words - especially since the camera focuses directly on their disappointment. When the winner goes on stage to collect his/her award, the first thing he/she always says is, "I can't believe this! I never expected to win!" Followed by, "I haven't even prepared a speech..." but then they suddenly burst into a 10 minute perfectly prepared paperback novel, thanking every person (by name, nickname and title) of their 500-member team "who have made this possible." Throw in some tears and you have tomorrows front page entertainment news story. It's <i>always</i> the same, trust me. </span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Award ceremonies are just an excuse for the rich, fake and famous to get fabulous free gowns and parade around, waving at crazed fans and posing for the camera with wide smiles pasted onto their faces. That's why I <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666;">only</span> watch them for the fashion ;)</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span>

Awards Show Anatomy

Awards Season is well underway in all it's glittery, frivolous glory, where actors, directors and producers are made out to be far more ...

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Under Construction

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /><br /></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiP-Yiy0YFTdoYvrP3p_duYYOmwEGzfNlCkM2Fvw5QYki070ghZrl7kIJs-CETBZbCDoqkUsKNKP_wYbRQQC03yHkkxELO6fzXU6OA7cC7wU2jrN2-PO77Jms2KVLNbcz5BWh5Yxp2sAlM/s1600/tools+pink.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiP-Yiy0YFTdoYvrP3p_duYYOmwEGzfNlCkM2Fvw5QYki070ghZrl7kIJs-CETBZbCDoqkUsKNKP_wYbRQQC03yHkkxELO6fzXU6OA7cC7wU2jrN2-PO77Jms2KVLNbcz5BWh5Yxp2sAlM/s400/tools+pink.jpg" width="368" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Any homeowner or flat-letter would know that a house is never really complete. There's always something to be done - new furniture to be bought, redecorating, recolouring, redesigning and renovating. Those are redevelopments that we willingly choose to do. We put our creative ideas forth, start a home refurbishment fund and set a systematic plan into action. The outcome is (usually) what we imagine it to be. And then there's the unplanned upgrades. You know, the ones that sneakily spring up on you, like the leaky roof, cracked tiles, chipped paint and broken window. It happens when you least expect it and has to be fixed without delay, or else the problem worsens. The cycle of repair and restoration never seems to stop, whether it's by choice or mere bad luck.</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">These little household fractures require you to hire a hard-to-find construction team, buy all sorts of expensive building material you've never heard of and have your home turned into ground zero. The site of construction is a nightmare, covering all your belongings in a desert of dust and dirt. The end result takes weeks, sometimes months to become a reality and by the time it's done, you will discover that there's something new to be fixed. </span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">With all the torrential rainfall recently, we had to have our roof redone, as it was turning our upper level into somewhat of an indoor swimming pool. It took ages to find a reliable contractor in Small Town, SA and when we finally did, they could barely work a day a week due to the storms. They got ahead eventually and retiled the roof; however in the laborious process, the ceilings were badly affected by the leakage and fell apart. I had a skylight in my room without even asking for one. This meant we had to redo our ceilings - another unplanned event with many more woeful weeks of building. We were knee-deep in rubble and wreckage; displaced from most of our rooms and needed to wear safety helmets, as the 'sky' literally fell down onto our floors. It was a stressful and straining experience and I thought Hurricane Home-Improvement would never end. </span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">When it was time to put up my new ceiling, I had an interesting design idea. I thought, why not use this predicament and turn it into something beautiful. I had my eye on a crystal chandelier I'd seen in a catalogue and always wanted but never had the appropriate opportunity or reason to purchase it. Since my lights were slightly damaged by the fall, this was the perfect time to get it. The agonizing months of decor disaster was actually worth it in the end, as with a flick of a switch, my room (and day) was lit up by the grand chandelier. Sometimes, all it takes is a small significant change to uplift your home-space and spirits.</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Renovating your home is a lot like renovating your life. We too go through break-ups & breakdowns, crumbling complexities, splintered emotions and shattered dreams. We feel so despondent and down in the dumps during the difficult times, that we often can't see past it. With a little ray of hope, revived vision and some constructive thinking, you can mend your mindset and you will realise that something better and more beautiful is destined for you. It may sound cliché, but there <i>is</i> light at the end of every tunnel, or in my case, a chandelier.</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div>

Under Construction

Any homeowner or flat-letter would know that a house is never really complete. There's always something to be done - new furniture to be...

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Dear Prank Caller

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times;"><br /><br /></span></span></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh5mWIRp6IhwOPPn5CF7rQup8fnz24ZL-3JlFbz0o5JqGy8eXp3DcGxoWeM04CSBj09DfgztL7OhYdRas3eY6gZCB4NRAJK0MD2tVeqqx3sJXxQUng7m1T64zlyZZqPc9PKPBuU8CaaQe0/s1600/pink+phone.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh5mWIRp6IhwOPPn5CF7rQup8fnz24ZL-3JlFbz0o5JqGy8eXp3DcGxoWeM04CSBj09DfgztL7OhYdRas3eY6gZCB4NRAJK0MD2tVeqqx3sJXxQUng7m1T64zlyZZqPc9PKPBuU8CaaQe0/s320/pink+phone.jpg" width="263" /></a></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I'm sure most of you have been prank called before. 90% of the time, you will never find out who is bored and creepy enough to call you up with no number at odd hours of the night. Occasionally, these practical jokers choose my friends and I as victims of their utter stupidity. You would think that<i> </i>these stalkers would have something better to do then spend their free valuable time and airtime making calls to innocent listeners. They call, we answer, they don't say a word, we get agitated and slam the phone down. After 5 minutes, the same thing happens again. This time there are curse-words involved. This doesnt seem to bother our dear prank caller at all. They have the safety and security of never being caught out, as they have activated the 'hidden identity' option on their phone. So sadly, you may never find out who woke you up from your sleep at 3 in the morning, ringing you up 55 times in a row, with nothing to say.</span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Being a 'good' stalker means that your identity should never be revealed. That's why people hide their phone numbers when making prank calls. However, there are some strange people out there that are really dim or just haven't moved with the technologically advancing times. They have somehow missed the memo from <i>Phone Stalkers Inc, </i>that every cellphone they call <i>will</i> display their Caller ID unless they hide it, and most landlines these days provide the same service. </span><br /><br /><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span><br /><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Last week, a number I didn't recognise called me. I answered, thinking it was the bank or the usual annoying phone salesperson. But even they're smart enough to call from a private number. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666;">"Hello"</span> No answer. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666;">"Hello....Hello?"</span> Still no reply, but I could hear shuffling in the background. Again I asked, <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666;">"Hello? Is</span> <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666;">there anybody there?"</span> Clearly there was, as I could hear muffled whispering. Tired of playing this prankster's game, I put the phone down. A few minutes later, as predicted, the same number called again. This time, I was prepared. I answered, <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666;">"Hello"</span> No reply. <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666;">"Hello? Hey, is there anybody there?"</span> Silence still. So I smugly said, <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666;">"By the way, I can see your phone number.</span> <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666;">You've forgotten to hide</span> <span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666;">it." </span>A voice from the other side of the line...<span class="Apple-style-span" style="color: #666666;">"Uh OH!"</span> and Slam...engaged tone. I would have called the number back, but that would render me as bored and bizarre as they are. I have not had a prank call since :) </span>

Dear Prank Caller

I'm sure most of you have been prank called before. 90% of the time, you will never find out who is bored and creepy enough to call you ...

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The Other Side Of The Fence

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhIegKZ2YwPzUm8zgieZICepAZV_dmrQAzPN11fNcQ7qyfv4RFkIIOjiB6LBWCsC2lZuiLhzpCx81b87Li5t7POpolpv0IwHD_hpddhvcoU0LhArHabx49WzoNamewgVhKytSQle_n0Oeo/s1600/the+fence.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhIegKZ2YwPzUm8zgieZICepAZV_dmrQAzPN11fNcQ7qyfv4RFkIIOjiB6LBWCsC2lZuiLhzpCx81b87Li5t7POpolpv0IwHD_hpddhvcoU0LhArHabx49WzoNamewgVhKytSQle_n0Oeo/s1600/the+fence.jpg" /></a></div><br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">One of my BFF's and I decided to take a mini road trip to our previous place of employment, which is about 45km from Small Town, SA. The intention of our visit was to catch up on all our friends and workmates we hadn't seen in almost 2 years. Turns out, this journey would serve a far greater purpose for me.</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The first thing to jog my memory about working in a far out place was the early mornings. I had long forgotten what it was like waking up before the sun does, at minus 8 degrees in the middle of a frosty winter, barely making it on time to catch the shuttle bus. I grimly recalled the endless road works, which added an extra 30 minutes to the drive. I also recalled the 7:30 coffee with colleagues every morning, which always made up for agony of getting there. I had remembered a place where I loved my job, where I had found something I actually enjoyed doing, while getting paid to do it. Had I been foolish to leave all this behind? </span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Driving through the entrance of my old workplace felt so unfamiliar, it was a place I used to know so well and now I was a complete stranger to it. A sea of faces I didn't recognize greeted me. New offices had sprung up where there used to be open spaces. Progress had been made on things I had starting working on before I left. There were, however, minor touches of the past; the odd poster I had designed on a wall, a picture frame on a friends desk and an emblem I had stuck on my old office door. It was nice to see that a little piece of me was still there.</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Our surprise visit was long overdue, as our old co-workers were just as excited to see us. Warms hugs and shouts of glee filled the quiet office corridors. Everyone tried to look busy and content, but the cracks beneath the surface were evident. The hallways were soaked in stress and the pressure of meeting deadlines had taken it's toll on them, showing through strained smiles. The first thing they all asked was "What's it like out <i>there?</i>" They were eager to find out what opportunities lay on the other side of fence, wishing that they too could leave the iron gates of this establishment. The first thing I asked was, "What's it like back <i>here?</i>". I was eager to find out what I had left behind. The replies were all the same, "Busy, as usual", with an added, "You should come back." I wanted to respond by saying, "You'd like me to return, yet you're so desperate to leave." But I knew better not to. </span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Before this visit, I had been thinking of all the fond memories I had at work, wondering why I had left. On seeing the low morale & languid labouring, it made me (kinda) appreciate my current jobless state. The workmates left behind yearned for the greener pastures they think we enjoy. Why is it that we always seem to want what other people have? It maybe true that the grass is greener on the other side, but we forget that wherever there's grass, weeds are sure to grow. No matter which garden route you chose, there will be stress and difficulty. Often we focus so blindly on other people's lives that we lose sight of what's right in front of us. So, instead of longingly peering over into someone else garden, nurture the one you're in.</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><br /><br /></span></div>

The Other Side Of The Fence

One of my BFF's and I decided to take a mini road trip to our previous place of employment, which is about 45km from Small Town, SA. The...

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